從近日身邊友人的小風波中學會了一點點:

許多事情真的很難分辦對與錯,我想人世間總不會有太多大是大非的事.盡量少去為誰對誰錯找答案,因你主觀的心總會是你最好的知己,站在你自己那方,"引領"你去為自己的全對,他人的全錯打仗,勝負難分,但仇恨必定加深。

或許在自己要意去保為自己的道理前,切身處地變成對方,或許你會理解得全面些,更會明白對方的睇法和苦衷,或許你會有更多的体諒,更大的容,或許這樣做能驅除你去找對與錯的戾氣，不會只想到「我已經做了這麼多」,而會先想到「他人付出的也不少」

少許的磨際可能未嘗不是好事,大家會更珍惜這份友誼,小病永遠是福;但我也曾經聽過一個道理:「要在別人心目中建立信任是十分困難的,可能要花上一輩子;但在別人心目中失去信任卻很易,可能只需片刻就能將辛苦建立的信任瓦解」,有時在心坎上疤痕真的很難復完的。

但願身邊所有人都幸福快樂

尋日終於找到將全副精神溫書,唔分心的理由~

從前以為自己都算是個有自信的人,縱然在學業上遇過挫折,亦無影響過我的心態,不竟學業的成績並不是一切~但我不得不承認,我昨天自悲的感覺真的很重~究竟我"賈"意D咩呢?

從友人口中得知某位朋友的陰暗面,使我心碎~(Wayne & Mabel:anyway,多謝你地無隱瞞我,haha,u are my buddies~)

握緊拳頭 ,會以為將所有東西都捉緊 ,其實連半點空氣都捉不到

放鬆手腕,掌向天 ,你以為雙手空如也,其實整個天空都在您掌心中                          

wondering whether a couple of people really intended to offend me,or i just care too much abt what they said ,maybe i created the shame for myself 

btw,needa reconsider who rele deserved your love n concern

It seems tha I hafn’t been dropping a few lines in xanga for so long~

yea,there are many things happened tha made me feel depressed in this week~poor relationship wid ma dad,my dear uncle was cheated by ma another fucking relative,ma dearest grandma got injured …it seems tha this world is reele reele horrible,is it the picture of everyone’s life?especially when one has grown up??

However,I got much better now,and,feel impressed,u can’t feel better tha there’s someone who play an active role to show u the concern,the worry abt u~~haha,I know that I was quite emontional sometimes,can be extremely happy n can look extremely down, hope tha I hadn’t scared u~~

Annnny:thz for having tha lunch wid me,both ma belly n soul were filled up~

Janet:thz for ur chocolate,it got to be the sweetest one~

Kit